Jessel Taank revealed that she hadn’t had sex with her husband since her one-year-old twins were born on Sunday’s episode of The Real Housewives of New York City.
The 43-year-old publicist and brand consultant made the revelation when model Ubah Hassan, 39, said they might go horseback riding during their Hamptons weekend.
‘I haven’t ridden anything in a really long time,’ Jessel said.
‘When was the last time you had sex?’ asked influencer Sai De Silva, 42.
‘Since I’ve had the kids,’ Jessel said.
Intimate detail: Jessel Taank revealed that she hadn’t had sex with her husband since her one-year-old twins were born on Sunday’s episode of The Real Housewives of New York City
‘Huh?’ Sai said. ‘You’re children are one.’
‘Yeah, it’s been a while,’ said Jessa, who admitted she felt bad about it.
‘Because I’m really self-conscious about my scar, like the C-section scar,’ she added.
‘Your giving blow jobs right?’ Sai asked.
‘Yeah,’ Jessel said. ‘The toothless, yeah. I do that.’
‘Jessel just hop on your husband’s d and get to work,’ Sai said in a confessional. ‘It’s like riding a bike.’
The season 14 episode titled Oh Christmas Tree! opened with Ubah picking up Sai at her Brooklyn brownstone for their weekend trip to Erin Lichy’s house in the Hamptons for the first group with the new reboot cast. Sai overloaded the car with her eight pieces of luggage. Jessel also rode with them.
Meanwhile, Erin, 36, was putting out white pajamas embroidered with each of their names in the bedrooms of her 6,500 square foot, five-bedroom, seven- bathroom Sag Harbor house.
Hamptons trip: The 43-year-old publicist and brand consultant during dinner in the Hamptons realized her previous fertility struggles may be playing a role in her sex life
Candid conversation: Ubah Hassan and Sai De Silva were shocked by Jessel’s admission
Loading up: The season 14 episode titled Oh Christmas Tree! opened with Ubah picking up Sai at her Brooklyn brownstone for their weekend trip to Erin Lichy’s house in the Hamptons
Hamptons house: Meanwhile, Erin, 36, was putting out white pajamas embroidered with each of their names in the bedrooms of her 6,500 square foot, five-bedroom, seven- bathroom Sag Harbor house
Erin also had a caviar caterer set up a spread in the kitchen.
‘I picked caviar because that’s a nice bougie snack for these bougie b*****,’ Erin said in a confessional.
Sai traveled with her own supply of toilet paper.
‘I’m very serious about my toilet paper,’ Sai said.
Sai called and asked Erin if she had food for them. Erin told them she had a whole caviar set up.
‘Caviar?’ Sai said. ‘ How far from your house to Provisions?’
‘Okay so you don’t like caviar, got it,’ Erin said.
Caviar spread: Erin also had a caviar caterer set up a spread in the kitchen
Bougie snack: ‘I picked caviar because that’s a nice bougie snack for these bougie b*****,’ Erin said in a confessional
Food fans: Sai called and asked Erin if she had food for them
Jenna arrived separately at the house driving a vintage Mercedes.
‘I’ve never been on a girls trip,’ Jenna said in a confessional. ‘I don’t remember the last time I had a sleepover. I mean, unless something else was going on.’
Jenna said she was nervous about the sleepover.
Sai walked into Erin’s house and handed her the toilet paper. Sai then asked for help to get her bags from the car.
In a confessional, Jenna said Sai was the definition of an influencer and would probably put on three different outfits a day.
‘She rolls deep,’ Jenna said.
Sai said she didn’t know if the closet in her room would work for all her clothes and wanted to know what people were going to wear to dinner.
First time: ‘I’ve never been on a girls trip,’ Jenna Lyons said in a confessional. ‘I don’t remember the last time I had a sleepover. I mean, unless something else was going on’
‘I brought 58 outfits,’ Sai said.
‘I plan to use all of my outfits,’ Sai said in a confessional. ‘Did we remember that I am a content creator? I need looks.’
Jenna shared that her mother died six weeks ago but that they weren’t close. Jenna said her mother had Asperger’s. Jenna also revealed that she brought lingerie for everyone.
Erin asked Jessel when was the last time she had sex and she said it had been a really long time.
‘You guys don’t understand,’ Jessel said.
‘What don’t we understand that your vagina has cobwebs on it,’ Sai quipped.
‘Jenna you really need to work because she just told me she hasn’t had sex in two years,’ Erin said. ‘ Actually, not a joke.’
Erin asked Jessel if she at least had a good vibrator, but Jessel said she didn’t.
Not close: Jenna shared that her mother died six weeks ago but that they weren’t close
No joke: ‘Jenna you really need to work because she just told me she hasn’t had sex in two years,’ Erin said referencing Jessel. ‘ Actually, not a joke’
Shopping list: Erin asked Jessel if she at least had a good vibrator, but Jessel said she didn’t
‘I really want you to have sex,’ Erin said.
Jessel wore pants that said Alexander Wang and picked up a bag that said Balenciaga across the front, but Jenna told her she couldn’t wear them together.
‘Jenna Lyon’s called me a fashion victim,’ Jessel said.
The group went out to eat at Topping Rose restaurant. Ubah and Jenna both did not drink.
‘I’m happier not drinking,’ Jenna said.
Jenna asked Jessel if they should set up a weekend for her so she could have sex with her husband.
Not drinking: Jenna was not drinking during the group dinner
‘Can’t you just have sex in the shower?’ Erin asked.
‘They haven’t broken the seal yet,’ Sai said.
‘Just go home and f*** your husband,’ Erin said.
Jenna explained to them when she decided that she liked women more than men. She said her relationship with her husband was falling apart when she asked her lesbian friend what happens with women.
‘And by the end of the conversations, after a lot of detail, I realized I was, I felt sort of hot,’ Jenna said. ‘I never had that feeling before. And I just wanted to kiss her.’
‘Something happened when I turned 40,’ Jenna said in a confessional. ‘I had this beautiful little boy, this great job and I had this feeling inside that I wasn’t happy.’
Jenna said when she was growing up she didn’t even know that women were gay. Jenna told them that she didn’t come out herself but that it was ‘done for me by The New York Post.’
Jenna said after being seen in a restaurant with a woman that the Post called her later at her office and said they had information that she was seeing a woman. Jenna said she hadn’t come out and told her family yet but then confirmed that the news was true. A DailyMail.com headline was shown about Jenna publicly acknowledging girlfriend Courtney Crangi.
Got outed: Jenna told them that she didn’t come out herself but that it was ‘done for me by The New York Post’
Publicly acknowledged: A DailyMail.com headline was shown about Jenna publicly acknowledging girlfriend Courtney Crangi
Jenna didn’t want to tell anyone about who she was dating now. Jenna said she had to respect their wishes.
Jessel said she was best friends with her husband when they moved in with each other. It wasn’t until later when they started dating.
Jessel said it took her seven years to get pregnant and that she went through five cycles of IVF.
‘It was brutal,’ Jessel said.
Jessel said her mother didn’t even know that she did IVF.
She realized while discussing it that her fertility problems were likely related to her current sex life with her husband.
The women got up to go to the bathroom and Ubah walked into the kitchen to try to say hi to the chef. Ubah then grabbed a can of coconut cream from a storage room.
‘We are in a nice restaurant, you have to put it back,’ Erin said.
The women got home and they changed into their lingerie. Ubah thought her lingerie was like a grandma’s outfit.
‘Jenna I ‘ll take it back, I love it,’ Ubah said.
Jessel did not like her green lingerie and said it was not her vibe. Jenna was offended.
Best friends: Jessel said she was best friends with her husband when they moved in with each other
Strongly disapproved: Jessel did not like her green lingerie and said it was not her vibe
‘She’s going on and on and on about how ugly the garment is,’ Erin said. ‘It’s not that bad. She’s being a huge b**** and has no f***ing clue. And that is the weirdest part.’
‘I can see on Jenna’s face that she’s horrified but at the same time Jenna doesn’t have enough balls to say ‘Hey, can you guys stop?’ Saw said.
‘This is hideous,’ Jessel said.
The Real Housewives of New York will return next Sunday on Bravo.